For most people, the joy of finding true love and deciding
to go into matrimony with a spouse usually knows no bound. However, most people
enter into this lifelong union without adequate knowledge of their partner’s
health status and so become disappointed and frustrated with marriage because
of medical conditions that could have been identified and tackled before this
lifelong commitment.
The knowledge of your intending partner’s health status by
no means implies that marriage is not possible but it gives you an avenue to
make informed consent and it enables you and your spouse seek proper medical
care early to prevent unnecessary stress and burden during marriage.
Here are a couple of medical tests needed to be done before
marriage:
1) The Genotype Test
This is probably one of the must do in the the test groups.
This is the test that lets you know whether you are AA, AS, SS, AC or SC. I
actually feel this test should be done from the very beginning of the
relationship. I am AA but because of the importance I give to this test, I
always ask the question of the genotype from the first or second date. Most
people find it weird but I have experienced a lot to know It is quite
important. There was a particular sunday in Church that we were discussing this
issue and people cited a lot of reasons while It does not matter. I want to
address this issue as I did in church. Before I do this I will Like to explain
the test.
The Genotype test helps in determining whether one has the
sickle cell gene. Sickle cell disease is a chronic and debilitating medical
condition caused by defect in red blood cells. As the name implies, these cells
are shaped as a ‘sickle’ and this affect their ability to pass through tiny
blood vessels to supply oxygen to cells and tissue. This account for most
crises experienced by sickle cell patients. It is advisable for sickle cell
patients (SS) not to marry a carrier of the sickle cell gene (AS) because of
the 50% chance of having a baby with the disease in each pregnancy. However, a
sickle cell patient (SS) can marry an individual with no trait of the disease
(AA) as their offspring will only be carriers of the sickle cell genes. AS and
AS individuals should also not get married because of the 25% chance of having
a baby with it.
So back to what I was saying. I told them It is the height
of selfishness for two people with the gene to get married. But in the case
that they both have agreed not to have a child or they have agreed to adoption
them they are fine.
2) The Blood Group and Rhesus Factor Test
This is also a basic test that should be done. It is
basically for information purposes and it does not determine whether two people
can marry. The rhesus factor test used to be a determinant though but with the
advancement of science there is nothing to worry about. Knowledge of your spouse blood group is
important before marriage because of rhesus isoimmunization/blood group
incompatibility that affects the fetus. This test is easy to perform and result
is usually ready within 30 minutes.
Blood group is assigned to an individual as A, B, O and AB
with another component known as the Rhesus factor which is referred to as
positive or negative. Women with rhesus negative blood group married to rhesus
positive husbands have a greater chance of rhesus incompatibility where the
mother produces antibodies (body defence system) to target the red blood cells
of the growing fetus (rhesus positive fetus) leading to intrauterine death and
miscarriages. Knowledge of your spouse blood group will alert your doctor to institute
preventive measures which are used to prevent rhesus incompatibility reactions
during pregnancy.
3) The HIV Test
This is one test I believe most couple do and it is
basically because of the fear of dying. It is a very important test. With the
current prevalence of HIV, it is important that spouses should request for
their partners to be screened for this diseases before marriage. HIV is a
lifelong condition that if not properly managed can put serious strain on the
marriage. The knowledge of your partner status helps you protect yourself/ seek
for adequate medical care if your partner turns out to be positive and you also
decide to go ahead with the marriage. Lifelong care and support is needed for
partners who are infected. I know various bodies that perform wedding rites
demand for it nowadays. It is not for stigmatization purposes but to help your
partner to adequately manage it and prevent transmission to you. There are
various test centers around you, just go for counselling and then get tested.
4) The Hepatitis Test And Other STDs
This is also a very important test. Hepatitis is probably
the STD with the smallest sensitization. I was still speaking with a friend
last week and he told me he never knew there is an STD called Hepatitis. I had
a first hand experience with a victim years ago and that was my first insight.
It is a deadly STD and it is more contagious than HIV. It can also be
transmitted just like the HIV. This is also a test that should be done before
an sexual relations begin between couples. A general screening for STDs should
be done.Other STDs such as gonorrhea, syphilis, warts, etc should be screened
for because they can lead to fertility problems and miscarriage. There is no
shame in doing all these tests.
5) The Fertility Tests
This is also a very serious one especially in the generation
of nowadays. Infertility is rampaging the society and we live in a world that
an ultimate importance has been placed on having children of your own. This may
sound out of place or weird, but truth be told, fertility test is another test
that all intending coupes should do before saying ‘I DO’. This is important
because fertility issues can be addressed as early as possible without the
unnecessary biological, psychological, social and emotional trauma associated
with barrenness. Fertility test typically includes: seminal analysis for the
men to assess for male fertility; hormonal assay for both couples e.g. FSH, LH,
Prolactin, Testosterone, estrogen and progesterone; test for ovulation for the
women, pelvic ultrasound scan may also be needed to assess the internal
reproductive organs for any congenital or acquired abnormalities.
Men needs more sensitization on this subject. Time has
changed from the past. There has been a shift in our diet and I think it has
taken a toll on our fertility levels. It is important we know our reproductive
status so that we can plan adequately. Science has advanced and there now is
increased success in the area of assisted conception. It shouldn’t be a big
deal again.
6) Full Medical Body Tests
Marriage is a lifelong commitment with both partners looking
after each another. Knowledge of possible genetic or chronic conditions of your
partner wouldn’t be harmful but it will go a long way in assisting both couples
on how to best prepare for the challenges ahead. Early testing allows couples
seek medical care before the medical conditions gets to its terminal stage.
This test depends on the region and the common chronic/genetic condition seen
in that populace. However, this test should include screening for diabetes,
test for hypertension, certain cancers, kidney disease and various brain
conditions.
It is important we carry out the various examinations. With
this you both will understand what you are going into and would have agreed to
take the walk together. Only then can you enjoy a lasting peace. Get tested.
Remain Healthy!!!
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