Alot has been happening lately in relationships. Those who
are in want out while those who aren't are thinking about starting. Anyways, as
a Lady, Imagine this scenario, you were having a nice time with your man then
he gets up and walks angrily after you said something that should have stayed in
your head. He stops all communication with you for a while, though you call him
to apologise. Most times we tend to say some things we regret much later.
Well,
below are a few words considered offensive which you shouldn’t say to your
man:
- ‘You spend so much on your friends’: They are his friends and not yours and telling him he wastes money on them would make it look like you are in charge of his finances. He is likely to stop discussing money matters with you if you both get back together.
- 'You don’t measure up to my brother/father’s status’: You shouldn’t have considered a relationship if he didn’t meet your family’s standards in the first place. Reminding him of his current position could make him resentful towards you.
- Cursing with the ‘F’ word: He may understand if you are having a conversation about something, as long as it’s not directed at him. Directing the ‘F’ word at your boyfriend could cause a gradual breakdown of your relationship.
- Snide comments about his mother: His mother is a no-go area for you. Doesn’t matter how much he disagrees with her, it doesn’t give you the right to make derogatory remarks about your partner’s mother. He may see you as a disrespectful person generally.
- ‘You are still hung on your ex’: Doesn’t matter how obvious it is, reminding him of his past relationship could bring about some unexpected reactions. Let him tell you about his past when he’s ready.
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