We
are too busy to notice how life keeps passing by us, how the things surrounding
us will never happen again. We are too sullen to notice the beauty of the dawn because usually in the mornings we
act like we get up, but forget to wake up beforehand. We are too frustrated to
feel the tenderness of our mom's voice
because we call her automatically between a rank of business
conferences.
We are too stressed up to notice how time flies, because ‘we have
a lot of work,' ‘today is a rough day,' because ‘this week is God damn the
most stressful week of the year.' By disregarding the reality, we deprive
ourselves of a real taste of life. The
group of experts in the psychological field has been working on the problem why
people forget to concentrate on the present moment and live a full life. They
are ready to share the secrets how to practice mindfulness every day.
Switch off gadgets
This
is one of the key ways to be mindful you have to obey on your way to turn on your consciousness. The presence of the
various devices turns our life into an automatic
routine. Every day has a traditional beginning by checking inbox at the Gmail, news feed on Facebook and new photos on
Instagram. To start living mindfully, tear your eyes away from cellphones and start noticing a life around you.
Take your gadget away in the bus and look out the window, behold the streets
you go every day, regard today’s weather and people going down the street.
Start living now!
Seize the
day
These
are the most fundamental components of a regardful life and ways to practice mindfulness. The perception of the reality is a much more difficult skill that may seem at first sight. Start
realizing that you are living at this very moment. Things happening to you
right now will never ever repeat again.Days will never be the same. Everything
happens to you here and now. Try to say these words out loud, repeat them when
you feel stressed outagain, and later
you will notice how your consciousness starts seizing the day.
Mindful eating
Unconscious
life is like food without spice. You cannot feel its taste because you are
always focused on something else. Busy people usually eat in a hurry to stuff
their stomach with whatsoever not to feel hungry and work on. Start practicing mindfulness while eating by concentrating on a meal you are going
to eat. Chew food carefully and slowly and think of what you are eating and
what taste it has in your mouth. Eat for pleasure, not for food.
Mindful listening
It
is scientifically proved that blind people hear better than people who can see.
Master a skill of conscious listening by concentrating on sounds you hear
around. Close your eyes and notice a noise of the wind, rustle of leaves and
voices of other people. Practice this ritual everyday before work and before
something important, you have to
concentrate on. Mindful
walking
If
you start walking mindfully down the street you always go, it will feel like
you walk down the new and unfamiliar way. Stroll through your neighborhood and
consider things you never pay attention to. Look at the people you pass, glance
at the windows of the buildings, smell the air and fragrances at the street and
think of each thing you see.
Mindful breathing
It may sound ridiculous, but try to breathe not in a way you
always do. Practice conscious
breathing. The slower and deeper you take your breath, the longer you live. Deep and mindful breathing is the perfect
secret of beauty, youth and good mood and conscious mind. Try to focus on your
breathing, by making full breath. Stop
each ten minutes of work to breathe deeply for one minute. Breath in and out
through your breast and belly for ten seconds before you want to say something.
Work ten minutes in your habitual pace
and stop to reconnect with your soul and breathe.
Mindful gymnastics
You
don’t need special equipment or outfit for mindfulness practice. All you need
is your body, and that’sit because in order to practice this kind of
gymnastics you don’t even have to leave your office. All you have to do is to
focus on your body and think of muscles you have. Turn around each wrist
separately concentrating on feelings you have while doing this. Repeat the same
action with your feet, then knees, toes, and fingers. Be aware of what you work
up.
Practice gratitude
Happy
life starts with gratitude you should
feel every morning you wake up. A state of being grateful for everything you have and get is essential for pleased
people. Say thank you for simple things people do to you every day, like a cup
of cappuccino in the café, someone’s help at work or even someone’s presence in
your life. Be thankful for that!
Robert Everett is
a famous American psychologist and life-coach. He is a founder of the best
School of Happy Life and the author of unique programs “Happy Husband,” “Happy Children,” “Happy Parents.” Obeying
the course of personal growth by Robert Everett,
you will definitely forget about phrases “Ineed someone to write my essay’ and will say, “I am the only one responsible for my work, for writing
my essay by myself.”
You can beat depression! How? Here are the ways:
ReplyDelete-Move your body every day
-Wake up at the same time every morning
-Practice spirituality or mindfulness of some kind
-Set goals and work hard toward them
You’re a lot stronger than you thought.